Charles Oduor 
Did you know that a man can have sex with a lady and still don’t have any feelings for her? yes according to a research i conducted in Western Region with university students and teens finds out that “Men only need space to have sex but Women need reasons to have sex”. A woman cannot sex without feelings except for sex workers. A man can travel for eight hours just to have sex with a female friend and not love her. “Sex makes men act as if they are in love while they are not.”
The eight hour travel sacrifice gifts brought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more. The question is always that: ( why do you joke around with the heart of someone in the name of love?)
The foolishness with women is the majority of the women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love. Sex is not an act of commitment. Men still live the woman they slept with on bed and start thinking of the next women to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from sex dies in minutes.
It is in the nature of lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford expenses of flying from UK to Nigeria for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex. Sex drives men to do what seem like impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird.
Sex and love are not on the page even in the dictionary they have different meanings. People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex. According to the research with the campus boys in Kakamega town, Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their lives. They always work hard as we think they working hard to live well in future but they are just living for fun and that is all. In campus students are now living together like husbands and wives and we call it love.
What kind of people do these students become when they live school? This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation building graduates. There is a lot of suicidal cases in the country and also murder cases in the name of love.
Today a 16 year old girl is already into sex. She wants to where everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in sense that any man that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.
Parents and guardians don’t even care about the morality of their children. They don’t provide for their children more so the girl child whom they use to get money without being concerned about their future. According to teenage girls in western region, almost all girls that have become sex symbols end up in deep mess [Depression and suicide]. How many of them today are changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well with their life? How can they take care of their young ones? How will they know to protect life as we know life starts at conception? They have sold their souls out to sex.
They pride on the way they wear and hotels they go to. That’s their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards while in primary and high school are now setting up economic empires. There future is already exhausted when they come to their true senses. To my beloved brothers, never allow your erection today to destroy your future directions. Stay positive and to my sisters, all that glitters is not gold. Make your future bright and it starts today. To our parents and guardians take care of your children. Teach them how to stay positive and provide for them to your reach.
By Lihavi Imelda
